Nicole Kenealy met Mark James doing business in New York City and quickly decided she wanted him to be a part of her life. She devised a plan to get to know him. She added Mark's email address to a list of friends and sent out invitations for a "cocktail hour" in the city. It took three tries to get Mark to go out, but when he finally did, he and Nicole stayed out talking until one o'clock on a Tuesday morning.